Breakups are always difficult, but you are the one who decides how to handle being dumped. When you are the one being dumped it can feel like your whole world has just fallen apart.
To a point that’s true, but it doesn’t have to last long. You can be the kind of person that screams and cries, and is totally miserable. You might stay up late plotting the demise of your ex.
You might even want to get revenge on that dirty, no good scoundrel. When you’re hurting it’s easy to go completely off on a tangent. Actually doing these things is probably not the best way to handle life, though.
A better choice is to take a little time to mourn the loss, get over it, and get on with life. Your life is not over because he/she is gone. It’s just different. And different isn’t always bad.
Choosing to move forward means that you need to make a plan, stick to the plan, and learn to be single again. However you choose to handle it I would like to add a word of caution here. Do not, no matter how tempting it is, get into another relationship immediately.
Why not? Well, until you have gotten over your ex it’s not fair to the new person. You are vulnerable right now, hurting, feeling bad about yourself. It would be easy to think a new person is the answer.
I suppose sometimes it might be, but 99% of the time, someone is eventually going to be hurt. Once you are stronger, you will most likely want something more with your life. Do you really want to make someone feel the way you do now? I didn’t think so.
Take a day or two to scream, cry, throw things, or whatever makes you feel better. Not many people deserve more time than that. And when your
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