What Should I Talk To My Girlfriend About When I Place That Call Long After Our Break Up?

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Placing that call long after a break up is never easy. First of all you need to know what to say and what to talk about to not look like a fool. What ever the reason is you guys broke up, has nothing to do with this call. In this article I want to help you on what to talk to her about when making this very important phone call. Now, you need to be ready and get this one right as if your life depended on it because if you do not, you run the risk of losing any chances left for you to get her back; or, I should say, for her to even consider getting back together with you. Okay?

Let's start.

Think about the real reason why you guys broke up and let it go. Forget about it. If you want her back you better do this step, because if the subject comes up in the conversation by accident you run the risk of losing control. If you want her back, leave all negativeness in the past and move on. Negative thoughts and feelings are not good for any relationship so if you want her back, start fresh.

What this phone call is not about?

This phone call is not to apologize or to deny anything. It is not even to speak about what happened. You do not want to talk about your past situation at all. You do not want to let her know directly that you want her back. She does not need to know what your plans are right now.

This phone call should be brief and to the point.

Here is how my first phone call after she broke up with me went. Now, she did not answer. I knew when was the best time for me to call. I knew when she was unavailable to pick up the phone in case she wanted to speak to me. For this particular phone call try to do the same. Do you know when is the better time for you to call? Think about when she will not be able to pick up even if she wanted to. Once you are certain about the time. Call.

Your message should say something like this:

"Hi (her name), I have been thinking a lot about what happened between us and I really wanted to thank you about a lot of things that I now understand. Anyway, I hope you are great. Kael"

Please do not say it as it is above, I said something similar but you need to be certain about the exact words. Remember, this is a key step on getting your girlfriend back. Don't screw up!

What you want to do by contacting her and leaving her a short thank you message is to make her curious about what is it that you thank her for. Now, please notice that you did not ask her out, you did not tell her how pretty she was or anything like it. You called her because you want to thank her for a few things, now she is curious about what these things are and she will call you back.

Wait for her call back. Try not to pick up at the first ring though. Let it ring twice or trice, then pick up the phone very casually and be nice. She will ask you about your voice mail and what are the things you are thankful for. This is when you make the next move.

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