Relationship stagnation can mean two things. After an exciting start, the enthusiasm and excitement have slowly worn out but the relationship is still intact. You do like each other but you also realize that some boredom has set in your relationship. This is a typical stagnation phase. But this can be either temporary or persisting. If it is temporary, you will have periods of excitement interspersed with periods of torpidity. If it is persistent, the dullness will prolong for a long time, with not even intermittent moments of cheer. In either case, you should act to end the stagnation.
It may sound ironical when you contemplate how your relationship started. Each of you considered the other exotic and the relationship as something special that only you two had, among all the people in the world. Nothing could go wrong, it had seemed. Everything was fun, excitement and ecstasy. You looked at the word with pride and condescension. But things had changed all of a sudden. You found that your enthusiasm was waning but you attributed it to your mood changes expecting to be back to normal in no time. And it now seems that things will never be the same as they were in the beginning.
The natural thought process that would emanate in your mind, as it would in your lover’s, would be to blame your partner.
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